Tuesday, April 22, 2003
Wednesday, April 2, 2003
ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRG
And so it's begun!! E is his usual a-hole attitude self this afternoon.. babbling on about Deven and asking overly protective but in a drunk sort of way... Then let's just keep learing at me like I did something wrong and having a shitty tone - acting like a drill instructor again and demanding unpractical accomplishments.... Plus he's throwing around the "How are you getting to work?" crap again...
Deven got sent home from school yesterday for kicking the teacher.. and he kicked her HARD!! She was so upset that when I went to get him at 10:50 she couldn't even come talk to me and tell me what happened... *sigh* Had an appt w/the psych(ologist) in the afternoon... He feels it's partially frustration from the ADHD and fine motor skills deficiencies - throw in a little being tired... We have an IEP meeting on 14th in am to discuss getting Deven his own aide to help him and teacher out in classroom... Doc thinks we are on the right track w/that and we need to wait out the meds fully kicking in.... He also approved of my behavior/reward chart for Deven and reminded me we need to continue to be more consistent... Also have to make being sent home NOT FUN.. well that's not a problem.. Deven will NOT watch movies on DVD, any cable tv or play the playstation or computer for atleast the week...
Of course there is the inconsistency of E... I have NO problem getting Deven up and dressed and on bus when I am not on nights... I don't know WHAT E does that he has such resistence from Dev - other then acting militant and overbearing with all of us.. No wonder Dev is soo angry... He is NOT stupid - he can see the attitude/verbal changes in E when's drinking and Deven can see - hell we all can - that E is drinking even when he "TRIES" to keep it low key and hide the cans/bottles coming in... YESTERDAY I said Deven would have no privledges and that I didn't approve of the school teaching Dev how to get out of class and come home... IDIOT claims I said Dev would not go to school today so he wasn't anywhere NEAR ready at 8:45 so Dev stayed home as I am too tired to argue w/E.... Now's he's babbling on that it's my fault that Deven acts the way he does cause I don't let E whoop him... YEAH RIGHT!! The guy has NO CLUE of his strength - I have seen that w/me in the past and his "I didn't hit/push/touch you that hard" beliefs... And his reasoning/logic is 10 times worse now - he will NOT lay a hand on my children ever!!! So after he blames me it's the school's fault cause "NO ONE TOUCHES MY BOY" and why was teacher close enough to get kicked - umm she's his teacher - she is gonna be close to him to teach him and touching is a part of life.. and if Dev starts to rage they are gonna restrain him for his and their protection IDIOT!!!!!
Well I better go see what's going on cause I HAVE to get over to shop and work on the car - he's made it impossible to get there for 3 1/2 days now... it's a DIY shop and I gotta go work on it MYSELF!!!! That was whole point of not having money to send it to a real shop.... *sigh* I think I have managed to pour out my heart enough for now and my brain is getting jumbled up so, Til next time...
ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRG
And so it's begun!! E is his usual a-hole attitude self this afternoon.. babbling on about Deven and asking overly protective but in a drunk sort of way... Then let's just keep learing at me like I did something wrong and having a shitty tone - acting like a drill instructor again and demanding unpractical accomplishments.... Plus he's throwing around the "How are you getting to work?" crap again...
Deven got sent home from school yesterday for kicking the teacher.. and he kicked her HARD!! She was so upset that when I went to get him at 10:50 she couldn't even come talk to me and tell me what happened... *sigh* Had an appt w/the psych(ologist) in the afternoon... He feels it's partially frustration from the ADHD and fine motor skills deficiencies - throw in a little being tired... We have an IEP meeting on 14th in am to discuss getting Deven his own aide to help him and teacher out in classroom... Doc thinks we are on the right track w/that and we need to wait out the meds fully kicking in.... He also approved of my behavior/reward chart for Deven and reminded me we need to continue to be more consistent... Also have to make being sent home NOT FUN.. well that's not a problem.. Deven will NOT watch movies on DVD, any cable tv or play the playstation or computer for atleast the week...
Of course there is the inconsistency of E... I have NO problem getting Deven up and dressed and on bus when I am not on nights... I don't know WHAT E does that he has such resistence from Dev - other then acting militant and overbearing with all of us.. No wonder Dev is soo angry... He is NOT stupid - he can see the attitude/verbal changes in E when's drinking and Deven can see - hell we all can - that E is drinking even when he "TRIES" to keep it low key and hide the cans/bottles coming in... YESTERDAY I said Deven would have no privledges and that I didn't approve of the school teaching Dev how to get out of class and come home... IDIOT claims I said Dev would not go to school today so he wasn't anywhere NEAR ready at 8:45 so Dev stayed home as I am too tired to argue w/E.... Now's he's babbling on that it's my fault that Deven acts the way he does cause I don't let E whoop him... YEAH RIGHT!! The guy has NO CLUE of his strength - I have seen that w/me in the past and his "I didn't hit/push/touch you that hard" beliefs... And his reasoning/logic is 10 times worse now - he will NOT lay a hand on my children ever!!! So after he blames me it's the school's fault cause "NO ONE TOUCHES MY BOY" and why was teacher close enough to get kicked - umm she's his teacher - she is gonna be close to him to teach him and touching is a part of life.. and if Dev starts to rage they are gonna restrain him for his and their protection IDIOT!!!!!
Well I better go see what's going on cause I HAVE to get over to shop and work on the car - he's made it impossible to get there for 3 1/2 days now... it's a DIY shop and I gotta go work on it MYSELF!!!! That was whole point of not having money to send it to a real shop.... *sigh* I think I have managed to pour out my heart enough for now and my brain is getting jumbled up so, Til next time...
